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One of the things that parents find difficult to handle is allowing children to open up to them. Whether you like it or not, the truth is that your kid would have second thoughts in talking to you. He thinks that the moment he shares something to you, there is a possibility that you will react negatively or criticize him right away. Because of this, he would rather go to his friends than talk to you.

 

According to Bonnie Zucker, PsyD, “I do think that while we just want to be as authentic as possible in our parenting, there are times when you have to limit what you say and mostly when it comes to conversations about death, I think for a young child you have to be very clear and planned about what you want to say.”

 

 

If you want to change this kind of situation, then be sure to read this write up from start to finish. Before anything else, it is essential to pinpoint the fact that making your kids open up to you must be your top priority. Whenever he gets excited or encounters a problem, you must be the first person that will come to his mind. The reason behind this is so that you can get to understand what is going on his mind. At the same time, it will allow you to think of the different ways on how to help him the right way.

 

Below are the tips and tricks to remember if you want to make your child become interested in talking and discussing things with you:

 

Show Your Affection

 

Make your child feel that you love him more than anything else in the world. Nothing can make him smile more than you. Remind him how much you care for his love and affection. Once you do this, it will be a lot easier for him to trust you. He will feel more comfortable because he knows that you will continue to love him no matter what happens.

 

 

Jennifer Walton, MA, LPC, LCPC said “For teenagers, you’ll see their anxiety expressed more outwardly. It’s normal for them to want their own space and start developing relationships with others.”

 

Spend Quality Time Together

 

You need to see to it that your child will spend more quality time with you. It is crucial to give him more opportunities to bond with you. Remember that spending more valuable time with your kid can make things a lot better for you. Your relationship together will improve as the days go by. One of its positive effects is that he will find it easy to communicate with you whenever he wants to.

 

Avoid Giving Judgments

 

As much as possible, never say anything bad to your child. Put in mind that the more you utter hurtful words to your child, the more distant he will become. As a result, he will start to look for comfort and solace from other people. He will start to open up to other persons, and this can be a dangerous situation for everyone. He may end up getting the wrong advice or influence. If you do not want this to happen, make sure that you think twice before you speak. Let him know that you are ready to accept him and that you must never judge him in any way.

 

 

Here is something for the kids: “If your parents have hurt you in the past, it’s important to take an honest look at how that’s affected you.” – Katrina Taylor, LMFT,

 

Make sure to familiarize the tips and tricks mentioned in this article so that you can avoid compromising situations in the future.

 

Being a parent can be a tough job, especially if you have no idea how to get started. First of all, it is crucial on your part to understand that you play a significant role in the upbringing of your child. Whether you like it or not, your child’s personality and attitude will depend on his upbringing. Because of this, there is a necessity for you to focus on how to discipline your child. Keep in mind that most problematic adults are those with an unhappy and stressful childhood.

 

 

“By looking backward, one can better understand their present and make positive changes for the future,” said Emily Griffiths, LPC.

 

For today’s article, we want to remind every parent to give attention to how to raise your child. As much as possible, discipline him every step of the way so that he can learn discernment at a young age. Remind yourself that you have the duty to let your beloved child know whether he is doing the right thing or not. Below is the list of the reasons why disciplining your child is highly suggested:

 

To Teach Him Good Deeds

 

Do you want your kid or child to be respectful and admirable? Are you interested in making him a well-loved individual in the community? If you answered yes to these questions, then be sure to prioritize disciplining him starting now. Teach your child how to do good deeds through your method of discipline. Let him know which are those that he must do regularly and those he must avoid at all cost.

 

 

According to Katrina Taylor, LMFT, “There’s a difference between blaming and accountability.”

 

To Make Him Healthy

 

Keep in mind that discipline is not just about cultivating a pleasant attitude for your beloved child. At the same time, it also involves teaching him how to take good care of his body. Remind him that he has to start living healthy while he is still young. Otherwise, he may encounter severe medical conditions that can prevent him from enjoying life to the fullest. For example, control his food intake so that he will not end up obese.

 

To Train Him To Make Better Choices

 

Another reason why you must discipline your child is to enable him to make better decisions and choices for himself. The more you show your strict side to your child, the more he will start to respect your authority. In the long run, he will also start to mirror your attitude when it comes to deciding what to do with his life. It can be challenging and tough in the beginning, but you will soon get used to it.

 

 

“Expressing appreciation is a great way to strengthen family relationships.” – Brent Blaisdell, PsyD

 

Remember that there is no easy way to discipline your child. Stop feeling guilty for acting tough at times. Take note that you are only doing what is right for him. However, do not forget that it is best if you will explain to your child some of your actions and words. Make him understand why you have to discipline him. Aside from this, be sure to be around whenever he needs to talk to you or confide to someone. Keep in mind that parenting is fun and exciting as long as you know what to do.